Get your
attention? Then listen up. Your employees are begging for feedback. They’re
craving it. They’re practically screaming for it.
Give it to them.
Just take a look
at the numbers in Mark Murphy’s blog, Employees Are Desperate For Feedback. According
to a study by Leadership IQ, “Fifty-one percent of employees do not know
whether their performance is where it should be.”
That’s half of
the employees surveyed in the study (3,611 employees) admitting to not knowing
where they stand. Only 21 percent said they knew where they stood, with the
balance being in the middle.
Why? Why are
managers so determined to not provide feedback? Is it that they think that’s
too “touchy-feely”? Too personal? Is it that they think employees should just
get on with the job and forget about what others think? Do they think employees
can read their mind?
Here’s what I
think is a big part of the reason: It’s a generational thing.
If you’re a Baby
Boomer, you’re more likely to come from the world of “just get on with,” and “I
hate all that personal stuff.” It’s certainly how our parents worked, and the
trickle down effect of their parenting lead to many of us being the same. Our
parents got little feedback, so they gave us little feedback. You need to be
tough, you know.
But, if you’re a
Gen-Xer or Gen-Yer, or as Marc Prensky coined, a “Digital Native” (someone who
grew up with computers and playing computer-based games) in his book Digital Game-Based Learning, you’re used
to feedback. A lot of it. Immediate. Now. More of it. Feedback. That’s what
computer games do. That’s what they’re based on. You do something, and you get
immediate feedback. Confirming feedback (that worked, so do more of that), or
corrective feedback (that didn’t work, so do something different).
My guess is that
there are many Baby Boomers managing Gen-Xers and Gen-Yers. And half the
Gen-X/Yers are crying out for feedback. In fact, according to the study, two
out of every three employees say they have too little interaction with their
computer game… I mean, with their boss. See, they are used to having immediate
interaction with their games, with their computer. But with their bosses… well,
they don’t get enough interaction, enough feedback.
I once had a
boss that I wouldn’t even see for over a week at a time. And when I did see him,
I would not get any feedback. No, feedback was reserved for that one meeting
each year – the annual performance review. That lasted no more than 20 minutes,
and consisted of him telling me, “Keep up the good work.” I didn’t even know
what it was that was “good,” so I didn’t know what I should keep doing. So, I
just did what I thought was the right thing to do and hoped that was it. Hope.
A pretty good strategy, right?
My bet is this:
If you talked to the bosses of the employees that said they didn’t get enough
interaction and asked them if they interacted enough with their employees, most
would say yes. Their perception is they interact enough. Their employees say
they don’t. Makes you wonder what your employees think.
If there are any
Gen-Xers or Gen-Yers reporting to you, I suggest you think more like a computer
game and give plenty of feedback, immediately. That is if you care about how
they perform. Because, for some reason, when most people do not get the
feedback they want, they assume the worst.
Oh, by the way…
I wouldn’t mind some feedback, too. I’ve been thinking about stopping this blog
since I get so little feedback. I mean, what’s the point? Based on the lack of
feedback, the only conclusion I can come to is that I’m doing a terrible job or
no one cares whether I continue or not.
Excellent points, Ross. As a Gen-X business owner, I can relate to the idea that I look for constant feedback from my clients. Well, the client relationship is different than that of an employee/employer relationship...but not by much, really. I used to tell my employed friends who claimed I had no boss excpet me that it was worse: every one of my clients is like my boss, so I have multiple - all with different personalities and needs.
To your point, sometimes just the action of touching base with someone will pay dividends. It may not have to be anything specific, but just a personal visit that encourages feedback (both ways, mind you!)
As for your blog, keep it up!
Posted by: Molsen | November 10, 2009 at 06:13 AM
Thanks for the feedback. And for pointing out the client-business owner relationship. I hadn't thought of that, but you're absolutely right.
Ross
Posted by: Ross Bentley | November 10, 2009 at 01:29 PM